What does transfiguration mean?

This week, Lent is underway, and the Gospel reading is all about Jesus’ transfiguration. Three of his disciples were with him and saw him in all his divine glory. I have heard this story many times and never thought about it too much. Transfiguration is such an interesting word. According to the dictionary it means “a change of form or appearance”.

How often does that happen? It’s all relational. Jesus only had three of his disciples with him, so probably his besties, and that’s who saw him. Jesus showed his true self to those he was closest to.

Think about how you act and talk in different groups of people and you will probably see what I mean. We speak and act differently with those whom we love than to those who are strangers. Do you instantly start cooing and baby talk when you see or hold a baby? Babies are sweet and cute and who can resist a cuddle? Do you hold that same sweet spot for your teenager or coworker who is driving you a bit crazy?

If our appearance and demeanor change when we are in different places and with different people, should we change something about that? If we are not kind and loving to all, should we change the company we are keeping? To whom do you show your true self?

I strive to live out the golden rule and treat others the way I would like to be treated. I sometimes fail. This Gospel story reminds me that there are safe spaces and circles to be and show our true selves. It’s about the company we keep. If I want to be more like Jesus, I have to spend more time in his company.

This week, consider with whom and where you are spending your time. Where do you “change appearance” because of circumstances. Are you able to change those circumstances?