Do you wonder why Jesus sent the disciples out two by two? I’m sure it was a way of protecting them, just like we tell kids, don’t go anywhere alone, take a friend. We certainly need others on our journey, but I wonder if it is more about the validation and credibility that two as opposed to one gives, a sort of “back up” system if you will.
Think about it. When you decide to apply to college, a job, or a volunteer position, you are asked to provide references. These are the people that will vouch for you and tell others that you are a good person and worthy of the position or admission. Someone is vouching for your character, your work ethic, even your values at times. You are depending on them to point out your good qualities. Let’s hope that we have some good qualities.
On the other side, it’s a responsibility when asked to give a reference to write about the person’s good qualities and maybe tactfully weave in a struggle to show their resiliency. I have written many recommendation letters over the years, and while there is always a “formula”, I concentrated on the good qualities I could see in that person, what set them apart from the others.
Where am I going with all of this? People aren’t kind, generous, forgiving, or do good deeds so others will praise them. (ok, some people do but not the majority). People are kind, generous, forgiving, and do good deeds because it’s the right thing to do.
When you are doing the right thing, consistently, other people notice. Everyone makes mistakes, but even added up, that does not erase the goodness and kindness that you bring to the world. If you are living by your faith and values, others will line up and be happy to “vouch” for you when (or if) the time comes. Just like the disciples, God always give us backup. 🙂
